● Just Because
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› This or That — Random Edition 🖤
A quick little fun post randomly: This or That – feel free to comment your answers 🖤
Hot coffee or iced coffee – iced coffee
Mountains or ocean – ouff! Tough one but I feel most at home when I’m looking out over water so ocean will be my answer.
Early bird or night owl – mix of both but not too early or too late.
Matte nails or glossy nails – dislike nail polish so none
Lip gloss or lipstick – the horror! None!
Scarves or beanies – Scarves
Movie night or game night – Game. I can’t handle movies without having many breaks unless it’s a favorite movie of mine
Chocolate or vanilla – Vanilla (but honestly.. pear and strawberry plus salted caramel)
Sweet perfume or woody perfume – how does a woody perfume smell?? 😵💫🤔
Reading comments or replying to comments – both! Working on becoming better on replying faster
Jeans or leggings – leggings!! I can’t stand the feeling of jeans except if my denim vest
Platform shoes or flat shoes – Platform shoes
Sunrise walk or midnight walk – Sunset but here? Midnight
Clean room or made bed – chaos, messy! My brain works best
Calm day or productive day – I wish for a calm day but never have more than 30% Calmness daily.Please share your list 🥰 I’d love to read your answers 🖤
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› How ADHD Affects the Way I Communicate and Hold Conversations
Having conversations with ADHD can feel chaotic, fast, and unpredictable. My brain can jump between topics within seconds—unless the conversation goes deep, where hyperfocus often takes over instead.
Honestly, anything — except politics, racism, war, etc.
It actually depends on how the conversation flows between me and the other person. If it were only about me talking about something, I probably wouldn’t be able to decide what to talk about once my ADHD brain kicks in, because I can go from one subject to another within 0.2 seconds.
So me keeping track of a conversation I started would be almost impossible — unless it’s a deep conversation. Then my ADHD behaves.
But random talks? Oh wow.
I can go from SparkleFart the unicorn to FartStripes to completely made-up things.
Haha, I’ll explain SparkleFart and FartStripes.
I used to play a game called Whiteout Survival, and there was a pack you could buy that included a unicorn used when marching to attack.
She sparkled when she marched, so that’s where “Sparkle” came from — but it also looked like she was farting sparkles, so that’s how I came up with SparkleFart.
FartStripe was the name I gave a yucca palm. Don’t ask me why. I honestly have no idea.
FartStripe is FartRanden in Swedish, so FartRanden translates to FartStripe.
That’s the story behind those two names.
So yeah, having a conversation with me would never be boring for you. -
› This or That — Random Edition 🖤
Fun post: This or that. Comment your answers 🖤
Blanket or weighted blanket – blankets. Panic if weighted blanket
Candle scent or perfume scent – Honestly? None. Trigger my migraine
Thunderstorm or soft rain – Thunderstorm!!!
Barefoot or fluffy socks – uhm.. Barefoot mostly but also fluffy socks when mood
Tea mug or giant tumbler – Mug
Fresh sheets or fresh shower – Hard choice! PASS!
Dim lighting or natural daylight – Inside? Natural
Couch or bed – Bed
Silence or background noise – Background noise
Incense or candles – Candles
Stay calm or panic then solve it – depends on situation. Mostly panic mode (ADHD kicks in)
ADHD chaos or functioning adult – ADHD but when it comes to my son; functioning adult
Hold on or let go – Trying to learn to let things go
Comfort zone or chaos zone – learning to leave Comfort zone so let’s go with chaos
Be understood or be mysterious – understoodPlease share your list 🥰 I’d love to read your answers 🖤
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› Ten Things I Currently Love
Sometimes it’s the little things that make life better.
Ten things I currently like/love (other than I love my son)
These are not in order — they all share the same spot.
● My headphones
● Jackass (the series & movies) – the only movies I can binge-watch
● Pepsi Max (correction; love)
● My shoulder pillow – I have something called frozen shoulder and nerve damage in my right shoulder so I use a pillow to have the shoulder at perfect level so it doesn’t hurt.
● Rain, thunder and lightning
● My sunglasses – I use them daily and sometimes all day even in the dark: migraine.
● My drive — to keep EverFlow feeling like a family 🖤
● Mufasa & R10 – my cameras. Don’t ask me why one of my cameras is named Mufasa
● My music Playlist on Spotify – let me know if you want to know some songs from there 🖤
● Finally having my home spa routine again 🖤If you made your own “Top 10 things I currently love” list, what would be on it?
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› This or That — Random Edition 🖤
Fun post: Join in if you want 🖤
Dark academia or goth aesthetic – ouff! Goth aesthetic ofcourse!
Call first or text first – text! All the way!
Spontaneous or overplanned – depend on situation
Minimal makeup or full glam – full glam when time but regularly minimal makeup (as a mother i rarely have time for full glam)
Early dinner or midnight snack – I love food so both
Sarcasm or brutal honesty – brutal honesty
Deep talks or silly chaos – depends what it is on deep talk and with who. But personally I am the silly chaos
Head or heart – heart
Logic or intuition – both
Save money or treat yourself – I’m a working in progress recovering shopaholic so .. save?
Cold pillow or warm blanket ‐ cold pillow!
Notes app or paper journal – notes. Paper journal would only get lost
Fridge snack or pantry snack – freezer! Ice cream and berries
Organized tabs or 57 tabs open – ouff I feel attacked! 57 tabs
Routine or hyperfixation mode – chaos.Feel free to answer in the comments 🖤