● Just Because
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› This or That — Random Edition 🖤
Look at this! Another post! Let’s connect and see how many things we have in common!
Overthink or act immediately – I’m an overthinker but when needed; I act immediately before asking.
Trust your head or trust your gut – Both. My gut sometimes fools me – mostly when it wants food
Stability or adventure – adventure!
Routine or spontaneity – Spontaneous
Ask for help or figure it out alone – Alone.
Hold grudges or let go quickly – Depends on situation and who
Silence during conflict or say everything – OH I am brutally honest so I will say, say everything
Safe choice or risky choice – Risky but safe when it comes to my son
Private life or open book – I am pretty open?
Nostalgia or new memories – New but still remember the nostalgia
Plan everything or wing it – When it comes to adventure (like packing for travel): Plan. Everything else? Wing it
Predictability or surprises – Both
Comfort or challenge – Ugh! I’m learning to leave the comfort so challenge
Think first or feel first – I’m more of an act first, ask later kind of person
Forgive or protect distance – protectPlease share your list 🥰 I’d love to read your answers 🖤
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› Small Things That Make Me Happy at the Moment
Happiness doesn’t always come from big things.
What are those small things that make you happy? Comment below 🖤
● Everflow 🕷🖤 Always!
● My cameras and taking photos
● Pepsi Max
● My style & Makeup
● A few YouTubers I follow and watch
● Music
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› This or That — Random Edition 🖤
Incoming! Fun post! Feel free to answer in the comments 🖤
Pancakes or waffles – ugh! Hard one! I have no time nor energy to do waffles so I go with pancakes
Mac and cheese or lasagna – Never tried Mac ans cheese so I will go with lasagna
Spicy food or mild food – Spicy but not too spicy (don’t wanna end up at the ER)
Crunchy fries or soft fries – Crunchy!
Smooth peanut butter or crunchy peanut butter – never tried either of them
Cheesecake or brownies – Cheesecake
Milkshake or smoothie – Milkshake. If correctly done.
Homemade food or takeout – Depends on mood
Breakfast for dinner or dinner for breakfast – wait what?
Fresh bread or fresh pastries – Bread
Ketchup or mayo – Ketchup! Omg, people complain when I eat ketchup – I love ketchup!
Soup or salad – salad! Chicken salad
Lemon or lime – lemon
Pasta sauce or pesto – Pasta sauce
Coffee shop or bakery – coffee shopPlease share your list 🥰 I’d love to read your answers 🖤
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› This or That — Random Edition 🖤
A quick little fun post randomly: This or That – feel free to comment your answers 🖤
Hot coffee or iced coffee – iced coffee
Mountains or ocean – ouff! Tough one but I feel most at home when I’m looking out over water so ocean will be my answer.
Early bird or night owl – mix of both but not too early or too late.
Matte nails or glossy nails – dislike nail polish so none
Lip gloss or lipstick – the horror! None!
Scarves or beanies – Scarves
Movie night or game night – Game. I can’t handle movies without having many breaks unless it’s a favorite movie of mine
Chocolate or vanilla – Vanilla (but honestly.. pear and strawberry plus salted caramel)
Sweet perfume or woody perfume – how does a woody perfume smell?? 😵💫🤔
Reading comments or replying to comments – both! Working on becoming better on replying faster
Jeans or leggings – leggings!! I can’t stand the feeling of jeans except if my denim vest
Platform shoes or flat shoes – Platform shoes
Sunrise walk or midnight walk – Sunset but here? Midnight
Clean room or made bed – chaos, messy! My brain works best
Calm day or productive day – I wish for a calm day but never have more than 30% Calmness daily.Please share your list 🥰 I’d love to read your answers 🖤
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› How ADHD Affects the Way I Communicate and Hold Conversations
Having conversations with ADHD can feel chaotic, fast, and unpredictable. My brain can jump between topics within seconds—unless the conversation goes deep, where hyperfocus often takes over instead.
Honestly, anything — except politics, racism, war, etc.
It actually depends on how the conversation flows between me and the other person. If it were only about me talking about something, I probably wouldn’t be able to decide what to talk about once my ADHD brain kicks in, because I can go from one subject to another within 0.2 seconds.
So me keeping track of a conversation I started would be almost impossible — unless it’s a deep conversation. Then my ADHD behaves.
But random talks? Oh wow.
I can go from SparkleFart the unicorn to FartStripes to completely made-up things.
Haha, I’ll explain SparkleFart and FartStripes.
I used to play a game called Whiteout Survival, and there was a pack you could buy that included a unicorn used when marching to attack.
She sparkled when she marched, so that’s where “Sparkle” came from — but it also looked like she was farting sparkles, so that’s how I came up with SparkleFart.
FartStripe was the name I gave a yucca palm. Don’t ask me why. I honestly have no idea.
FartStripe is FartRanden in Swedish, so FartRanden translates to FartStripe.
That’s the story behind those two names.
So yeah, having a conversation with me would never be boring for you.