Expecting ;

every girl to be blonde, tall, have big boobs, have blue eyes and be like a barbie.

The only swedish food swedes eat is those meals IKEA sells.

Swedish girls are easy.

Doing;

Insulting and being disrespectful of how the Swedes are.

Instantly think we are mean and awful.

Disrespecting our values, places and places to visit/see etc

Trashtalking (not all but many I have seen online and heard irl) Swedes and how we handle things – like for an example the police here in Sweden never (extremely rare) use weapons such as guns. How we can leave our babies outside during winter time and alot more.

Thinks ALL swedes are racist (I hear this way more often than I would like to hear)

This is just a little bit. I could make a whole book series of all the things I have seen, heard and read. It’s ridiculous.

I have answered this one before but hey  let’s do it.

Do you remember the movie Madagascar? The one with the animals in the zoo? In those movies there was a male hippo named Moto Moto.

Well, I’m obsessed with the song “Big & Chunky” made by Will.i.am. 

I’m big (more than plus size) and this song makes me so happy. Makes me laugh and actually gives me confidence to get out of my comfort zone. 

I like them hippos, that’s in the wild (that’s in the wild)
I like they attitude, I like they style (I like they style)
The way they walk, walk, the way they talk, talk (the way they talk)
I like them with a appetite to eat a shark, shark
And when the dog barks (woof, woof)
She’ll eat them too
I love every inch, oh, yes I do (I love you too, baby)

I like them chunky, chunky, chunky
Chunky, chunky, chunky (chunky)
And plumpy, plumpy, plumpy
Plumpy, plumpy, plumpy (plumpy)
Chunky, chunky, chunky
Chunky, chunky, chunky
And plumpy, plumpy, plumpy, plumpy

Ain’t nothing wrong with loving chunky (chunky)
I like them funny, I like them spunky (spunky)
I like them witty, I like them smart (with brains)
Girl, I like your big (what you say?)

Your big ol’ heart, what?

As you can read, this is a fun song.

Link to YouTube and the song ; Big & Chunky by Will.i.am

Listen to it and tell me what you think.

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I will answer comments tonight. Sorry for taking a bit time.

Just ignore the negative.

I know, I know. It’s easier said than done. Been there and still am, but you cannot listen to the negative people say about you. I struggle with it daily, but I’m trying. Even though I’m going through stuff right now. Try to focus on the positive.

You can start simple; write negativity stuff you think about yourself and burn the paper (SAFETY FIRST!)

The second is that you write post-it notes and smack them up wherever you are. Bedroom, bathroom, hallway, kitchen,, etc. Think EVERYWHERE!.

The third and last thing is to give compliments and help out. Just getting the “thank you” makes a massive boost in your confidence. You know you can help; you know you can spread happiness. You know you can share smiles and make someone’s day. Knowing the happiness the other person feels and gets… priceless.

No. I believed that before. Not now.