lesson – The EVERFLOW

Hello, good evening or goodmorning – depending where in the world you are ☺️ for me it’s soon night so goodnight from me.

it’s finally weekend and that means, quality time with my son (no school etc). Fun! But also deep cleaning of the home is doing. I do deep cleaning about once a weekend or every other weekend. Depending how it looks like. Also home spa night on Sunday ~ I’m thinking of dyeing my hair but I’m not sure yet.

deep cleaning for me is actually what it sound like.. cleaning of everything, vaccuum the beds, air blankets, pillows, wash windows etc. Husband is working. Hard? yup but hey, I’m a SAHM (apparently. lol) and I try to teach my son how to clean, do laundry and the every day daily life. He has autism and I don’t really know how to teach him things like in school but luckily I can teach him daily life stuff, words etc (my son is non verbal so we practice a lot on pronouncing words etc)

This week has been very low on workout activity for me. Reason? I felt ill ~ like I was about to get sick. But it didn’t break out so hopefully it was just a feeling so I can go back to the gym next week. New month, new goals, new chapter. Let’s go!

Well im off to bed. I apologize for a weird post this time. I hope you all have a beautiful day/evening/night.

Goodnight ♡

I have learned a lot of lessons for the past year. I learn everyday to be honest. Sometimes I do same mistake but differently. Sometimes I do things I didn’t know and Sometimes I do things just because. But it’s hard to remember everything you have done for a year that has taught you a lesson but some you will always remember. Just because you put yourself in focus

What I have learned? ● iam too kind and generous so I had to get myself out of it and become more selfish ● that it is okey to ask for help ● it’s ok to have bad days ● it’s ok to be in sad/depressed time ● you do not need toxic people in your life – cut them out! ● always stay true to yourself no matter what ● love is too strong ●●● and so much more. Well I know it’s a lot more but these are just a few that actually has got stuck in my head that I try to focus on. oh and also “hair grows out”.

Toxic people has no space in your life. Protect yourself, your soul, your heart and your energy. You do not need fake people in your life. You do have to put your foot on the ground and show everyone who you are. Stop being a people pleaser. Stop being a doormat. Stop being that “friend” everyone needs but is not there when you need them. Removing/cutting people out of my life has been one of the best decisions I’ve ever taken. The freedom. The weight of my shoulders and heart disappeared.

what lessons have you learned?