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› Goodmorning + checklist
Goodmorning my beautiful pumpkins! How are you all today!? I hope you all are doing good and that you have a calm and relaxing Sunday!
Today E decided to wake up at 6.30am (sleep in!) so I went to cuddle with him and had a tickle fight while M were sleeping. After a while we got up, had some quick sandwich in the stomach so the worse hunger weren’t kicking in. We eat breakfast together when M is home from work so after 1 hour he woke up so we could have a real breakfast.
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Child had breakfast ✔️ Edited some photos from yesterday’s picnic ✔️ Booked hotel for vacation in November (husband booked it) ✔️Today’s list; laundry ○ clean ○ prepare for dinner and cook dinner ○ maybe go on a car ride as usual ○ give E a bath and prepare for school tomorrow ○ pack mine and E’s bags ○ and probably more Will be added on the list.
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picture from yesterday’s car ride. The fall is absolutely stunning.
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› Super excited to tell you what the niche is
I saw a question that made me think really hard.. Why you chose your blogging niche? well to be honest, I have been blogging for many years, different blogs, different names etc and I have been all over. Blog chaos, no red thread to follow etc. Which I might struggle with on this blog as well (atleast I struggle with my bad grammar – I’m sorry!) but why did I really picked my niche?
(cartoon filter on) well to be honest lifestyle suits me best because I wanna have a place where I can share my experience, news (good and bad) and have just a place to write on. Lifestyle for me is huge in the category but the best part you do not need one special niche. I love photography but I also love beauty and skincare and having lifestyle as a niche I will be able to post that instead of just focusing on ONE TOPIC. Now I will not have many topics in this blog. Maybe 4 or 5. lifestyle ~ (and daily life) photography, parenting (autism), beauty/skincare, mental health and inspirational posts.
For me important subjects are important to share such as raising awareness about mental health, bullying and autism . How to help, work and go through it. In today’s society it’s (at least where I live) a taboo to talk about these things and I have been through shit tons of things so I know a lot.
Photography ~ share photographs I’ve taken, share info and try keep my spirit up for photography (as you might have notice I always have at lease one photo on each post. taken by me or borrowed) . Share for my adventures, fun moments etc.
Parenting ~ As you know, I’m a mother to a boy named E who has a severe case of Autism. Autism level 3 and is non verbal. // I will share his progress, development and steps forward to the future. Not to seek attention or what so ever but to just remember the moments.
Beauty / Skincare ~ my Instagram has a lot of posts of beauty & skincare but in here I will just include some looks when I wear, information etc. Updates on beauty / skincare part will be on instagram, just like some lifestyle (will update LS on here)
Inspirational posts ~ Everyone need to motivation and inspiration in their life and iam here to share both quotes etc I have written myself and those I found online.
so now you all know why I picked my blogging niche(sorta know. it’s hard to explain). What is your blog niche?
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› Lessons I’ve learned in the past year
I have learned a lot of lessons for the past year. I learn everyday to be honest. Sometimes I do same mistake but differently. Sometimes I do things I didn’t know and Sometimes I do things just because. But it’s hard to remember everything you have done for a year that has taught you a lesson but some you will always remember. Just because you put yourself in focus
What I have learned? ● iam too kind and generous so I had to get myself out of it and become more selfish ● that it is okey to ask for help ● it’s ok to have bad days ● it’s ok to be in sad/depressed time ● you do not need toxic people in your life – cut them out! ● always stay true to yourself no matter what ● love is too strong ●●● and so much more. Well I know it’s a lot more but these are just a few that actually has got stuck in my head that I try to focus on. oh and also “hair grows out”.
Toxic people has no space in your life. Protect yourself, your soul, your heart and your energy. You do not need fake people in your life. You do have to put your foot on the ground and show everyone who you are. Stop being a people pleaser. Stop being a doormat. Stop being that “friend” everyone needs but is not there when you need them. Removing/cutting people out of my life has been one of the best decisions I’ve ever taken. The freedom. The weight of my shoulders and heart disappeared.
what lessons have you learned?
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› September goals | Blog, Life and weightloss ● nervous but excited
September is coming up and it goes fast! Wow. Can’t believe that it’s soon September and only 3 months left of 2024. That’s crazy!
I was thinking of making a small list every month (motivation/goals) list. You can join me as well 🥰 Let me know if you join this idea!
September 2024 goals ●●● BLOG RELATED; Grow so I reach 10 followers ● Blog at least once per day ~ if time, Blog two posts or more ● Share more photographs I take ●●● LIFE RELATED; Weightloss = gym at least twice per week. If time, try three ● -2kg (explaining this below) ●●●
sounds like a small little list that I hopefully can achieve 🥰 Looking forward to see the list at the end of September 🥰 Maybe you wanna join and make your own list of goals per month? Fun!
-2kg part; long story short. I was hysterical of losing weight two years ago when I lost so much in weight on 3 months. My brain didn’t follow the speed as my body shrunk and that wasn’t good. I was a maniac, I barely ate just to lose weight etc. Before my goals were 50kg on 5 months for an example. So now I’m trying to calm my head and take it slow.
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› Sunday night ~ skincare
even though I did this lastnight I wanted to share with you all. Haha Sunday = home spa night. Selfcare and glowing skin.
do you use any products ? do you have a weekly home spa night?