When Self-Care Turns Into Self-Reflection

Pull Up a Chair · A personal reflections on perfectionism,  self-care and learning to let things grow naturally 🖤

Normally Sunday is a home-spa night for me but I had to do it now – Tuesday. You know, cleansing, scrubs, masks etc. The whole shebang.

After these two intense days of trying to make everything perfect for EverFlow, I realized I had become too obsessed with perfection and had to force myself to stop — which was a massive struggle for me.

I will let this house stand on its own foundation, and we can decorate it together over time.

Yes, I have changed my focus for EverFlow. It is no longer just a place for me to share, but a home with room for others too.

I have created a new category with a few subcategories that I will introduce later, when the time feels right. What I can say for now is that it feels more inviting… and it makes this space feel less like “me, me, me” all the time. I have been feeling that for a while now, so I decided to change directions.

EverFlow will always be my home — my place to write, vent and share life as it flows. But I also want this home to feel welcoming, like a place where you can sit down, stay awhile and feel like part of something.

I hope you all understand what I mean.

Funny how a simple spa night turned into this realization…